so me and my girlfriend decided to take a break...and before we did, I told her if you find a new guy, you can just go with him and even sleep with him. So after 2 weeks went by, she calls me one night and tells me she misses me. So go to her place and find out the next day that she slept with another guy (she asked me if I've slept with another girl or not first). I was pretty shocked. She slept with somebody else not even 2 weeks before we broke up (but I did say you can sleep with whoever you want). The thing is I don't think she would have done it. Also, we have been dating for almost 4 years. How can you just sleep with someone weeks after you break up?
I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, then 2 days later she slept with someone else. I think that ruined our chances of ever getting back together.
I certainly don't think I want to.
but did you tell her you can sleep with others?...Also don't you think that she was honest enough to tell you about it?
You, sir, are a fucking idiot.
> I told her if you find a new guy, you can just go with him and even sleep with him.
> after 2 weeks went by... find out that she slept with another guy. I was pretty shocked.
Hmmm, this is a tough one. I'll just be giving my female two cents worth of thought here. If I were you, don't jump into reconciling with her because it seems that she doesn't know what she wants. After breaking up with you, she sleeps with someone else then asks to get back with you. It's better if the two of you went your own separate ways and sorted things out, especially her. This will give her a chance to know what she really wants, and also, this will give you a chance to determine if you still love her or not, because honestly, sleeping with someone else is a huge deal breaker. I do hope that you get to sort things out.
You asked a friend to watch your Home for two weeks, while you're on Hoilday. You said they can eat anything in the fridge, if they get hurgry. Prior to your flight home home, you call your friend and ask if the fridge is empty. You friend said she ate (only)ONE item from the fridge. You return and find she was speaking the truth, and then... you GET MAD?
i said that because I didn't want anything to constrain her...but for her to actually do it...wtf man 3.5 years and just sleeps with someone new a week later? wtf?
if you didnt tell her she can just go with another guy and even sleep with him. she was with you then.
and she didnt know what she want..
she was confused,and you made her
she loves you so much.
it was the great universe night and did you see it?
it was ur little trick ha,
its still nothin to me.
YOU go buck to ur life.
thats why i slept wiz him so much.
what do you say?
Sometimes it happens, but even though she slept with some one she become truly honest with that, I think relationship must have trust and honesty to each other. despite the circumstance, i think you still love her. Your just confuse in the current situation.
you have your woman with you.next to you.
she is da true woman, too.
i think you have to go
you are my destiny.
I've been in the position of your girlfiend. I was with someone for nearly 3 years, until he suddenly told me he wasn't attracted to me didn't want to be with me anymore. I was devastated and ended up sleeping with a friend a few days later. He then told me he'd been planning on getting back with me but I'd "ruined" my chances. It hurt a lot. He didn't care.
i really love him.
i want to get back with him.
i dont want your cockey dude.
take care of his grassy smelling butt 4ever.
ive done with him.
i like to seen you happy.
wow, it's taken this long for someone to make a Ross/Rachel reference?
.....WE WERE ON A BREAAAAK!!!
No one has made a "Ross/Rachel" reference because that would have been retarded.
take this from a girl. if i were your gf, and if she's anything like me, she probably thought you said that because you were planning on sleeping with another girl. and then, she may have had that feeling somewhere deeeeeeeep down inside her, that if you slept with another girl, you'd forget about her and stay with the new girl. so she wanted to make sure she'd have someone too, as not to look like the weakest link. one thing may have led to another and....
You fucked up by saying she could sleep with someone.