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Im a 21 yr old virgin (2)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-12-24 04:50 ID:cFAX+9BG

ok I want to clarify I live in the US, apparently this was info that was needed in another forum... anyway...

Ok so here it is, I'm a virgin and I've never been with a girl before. Now I've been seeing a girl for a few weeks and I think that things might be getting more serious. I'm worried about a lot of stuff concerning this, I've never been in this position so idk whats expected? Do I have to make the first move? how do I do that? so like when we do do something together, i'm undoubtly gonna finish fast and way before her. so do I have to 'manually' finish her too? I have sex toys, do I bring these out? is that creepy? how do i tell her I think I'm bi? do i tell her i think i'm bi? i have a major foot fetish, do i tell her this or is that too creepy? I can't stop thinking and worring about all this! AHHH! :'( please help!Ok another thing I forgot to mention, is while it would be my first time I know already that its not hers, shes been in other relationships and such... is she gonna think i'm a fool if i tell her shes my first? is she gonna not wanna deal with someone when its there first time?

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-12-24 14:04 ID:e9S4bb06

You're overthinking this quite a lot. Specially considering how you describe your girlfriend (some no-nonsense girl).

Should you tell her you're bi? No, not in the first months of relationship. What's the point? As long as you're interested in her, it does not concern her if you're bicurious. Now if you are actually mostly homosexual, and just can't quite accept that yet, she may get more pissed off. But even then, there's nothing really wrong, since you're giving her a chance and see if things work together, like in any other relationship. What would be really wrong is if you're not interested in her, and just use her as social cover. But it does not look that way from your description.

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