I've got a female friend I've been, yeah you know where this is going. I like her. I've actually liked her for a while and even asked her out once. At the time she was going to school out of state, and we had mostly talked on line. She rejected me of corse, but we stayed friends. We actually became better friends after she rejected me. Since then I had sort of been seeing someone else up until the start of this year when she dumped me for bs reasons that basically boiled down to she could not comite.
Welcome to the friendzone. How to get out... tell her you like her... and stop talking to her... going to be a long and hard process... and all you can do is hope that either she says yes right off the bat which would be good... or let her realize that she wants to be with you... else she will still say no... and after a long period of getting over her... you can go back to being friends.
Generally speaking, I was in a similar situation with a friend (but I am female and my "crush" was male), and when I simply could not take the build up of pressure, desire, and a need from deep within to tell him how I felt and what I wanted in our relationship, I just freaking told him.
>>3 I have thought of doing that before, just putting it out there like that. Thank you for telling me how it went for you. We are so close right now that it feels in a lot of ways that we are already dating. Which is part of why it is so hard and confusing. I'm not sure weither these signs point to interest in dating, or just to a deep friendship.
That pretty much just happened to me. We'd been hanging out almost every night, spending hours just talking and hugging before parting. She broke down and told me how much she actually liked me, so I hugged her close and told her everything was okay and that I felt the same way. Now we're kissing and cuddling all over the place.
lol...damn. so I guess I'm not da only one. Gf confessed to me too almost 8 years ago in a letter via phone call. sad that i didn't confess...but it was better than not having a relationship at all!