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Lack of Confidence = Misery (12)


1 Name: Drwb2 : 2012-11-16 00:36 ID:yxenuKc+

I don't know much about this stuff. I haven't really told many people. I really like a girl I have no confidence to talk to. I'm looking for outside help...Let me know if you are interested and I will continue posting...

2 Name: *Amagi : 2012-11-18 19:02 ID:4CEXUBzJ

What is she like? I think I may be able to give some advice..

3 Name: Drwb2 : 2012-11-25 06:14 ID:XYy6g5Co

She is out of my league in my opinion. Beautiful. That's all I know as of now. The problem is that I can't talk to her. I just want to get to know her :(

4 Name: Archie : 2012-11-25 09:49 ID:AW5bVTAg

Just go up to her and say hello.
Back in my guitar class, if there was a guy I wanted to talk to,
I would just go 'Hey. I haven't seen you before. Which batch do you belong to?'. And conversations just sails after that :)

5 Name: Drwb2 : 2012-11-25 18:51 ID:XYy6g5Co

My biggest problem is that I want it to be perfect. I am afraid to mess things up :(

6 Name: Archie : 2012-11-26 11:44 ID:AW5bVTAg

>>5
Just go up to her. Be confident and let it radiate off you :)
Say hello and ask her what's up. Simplest way to start.
In my experience- You only mess up when you're afraid. So be brave, my friend :)

7 Name: Drwb2 : 2012-11-26 15:21 ID:XYy6g5Co

I will try. I am not sure the next time I will see her.

8 Name: Archie : 2012-11-27 12:31 ID:AW5bVTAg

>>7
Good. You do that. Let me know how it goes :)

9 Name: Drwb2 : 2012-12-02 03:35 ID:QUuncFGs

So I talked to her...Here's what happened: (I go to Kent State University by the way. So you know I'm in the 20's age group.)

I went to the football game last night in Detroit. She was two rows in front of where I sat. I didn't talk to her the entire night. I must have just got tired of waiting because I talked to her today at the basketball game. Throughout the entire game, I was nervous etc...Game ended. So all my friends left. I stood by the room where the girls come out after the game. I waited about 10 or 15 minutes, and she was one of the last girls to walk out. I saw her and couldn't say anything. So she walked right past me. Then, I decided I had enough and went after her. I said "Excuse me. This is probably really weird, but do you want to go have dinner with me?" She said she couldn't and she had a boyfriend. I told her that if she ever wanted to go to at least get to know each other to let me know. We exchanged names and that was that.

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10 Name: Archie : 2012-12-02 12:40 ID:AW5bVTAg

>>9

(Kent State University- It rings a bell because I know about the Protesters story :( )

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11 Name: Drwb2 : 2012-12-02 13:58 ID:75xjxjxt

I am going to wait for her I think, but I'm not going to waste my life over her. I will let her initiate getting together with me since she has a boyfriend, but if I see her and am near her, I'll say hello. Does that sound like the right way to approach this?

12 Name: Archie : 2012-12-02 15:36 ID:ZC8aqsf/

>>11
I recommend you don't wait, since she is already seeing someone.
But yes, if you see her around, acknowledging with a friendly 'hello, how are you?' is just fine.