I've started college recently. There's this quiet girl in my music theory review class that I'd really like to get to know better. Problem is, I have a very small window of opportunity each week to talk to her--the class only meets on Fridays, and she's usually pretty quick to leave as soon as it finishes.
talk to her and get her number/kik/steam/skype i dont know
tell her IMMEDIATELY in real life that you have feelings for her
I dunno about straight up confessing immediately, but I'll at least give getting a number or something a shot this Friday. Wish me luck, pal
How did it go, OP?
Not bad, I think. I actually ran into her on Wednesday, talked a bit between classes and found out she's apparently a fashion major and music minor. Yesterday I figured it might be a bit early on in the progress of things to be asking for her number so it was more a matter of just talking with her some after class. As it turns out she's sort of shit at the class and I'm really solid with the material, so we struck a deal that I'll help her out with theory if she helps me learn some about fashion design and whatnot.
It's probably a good idea. Meet over coffee or something to discuss that class material. I would ask for her number at this point in case one of you needs to change plans. During your coffee study, feel it out and decide if it would be appropriate to ask her on a more traditional date.
OP here again, I hit a nearby coffee shop with her after our class today and actually got her number! The way it happened was a little odd though.
Basically we went and chatted, left with our drinks and talked some more. When we were about to head our separate ways I asked for her number, but she was sort of hesitant. After a moment she made up her mind and gave it to me, mentioning it'd be good for when she needs help with the theory class and whatnot.
As long as you don't do anything to creep her out, you're good to go. The hesitance she shown means she doesn't fully trust you yet, but don't think that her action says that she doesn't want to do anything with you.
I am not the OP but am in a similar situation. Once the number is obtained, how,does one go from "hanging out" to dating?
It's possible that she doesn't have any desire for a more intimate relationship with you, but regardless I don't think you should consume yourself over a brief moment. If you continue to pick up signals that show she isn't interested you should still have a decent friendship, because she might have cute friends!
Sorry that theory girl isn't happening. Good luck with the flutist; hopefully you or one of your classmates throws a party and you can try to mingle with her there...
Where is a good place to go on a relaxing date where one can be cozy with their date? If the activity is too active, there is no time to be close with each other, but too sedentary and nobody enjoys themselves. Any ideas and advice are appreciated.