1/2. Just had a big argument with my mother and sister. I am not from a broken family, financially and spiritually we are alright (average middle class American). It started when my mother look through photos of my facebook (I share my account with my mother), and there is this particular 3 months old photo which has me together with a girl. Then she went mentioning about her being a chinese and christian (she is) and that just drives me mad. I've been telling her that we're just friends and that I can understand her fears getting too intimate with not-one-of-us.
I told her why do you care so much of my social life, if her children social so important to her why then she has been ignoring with whom my younger sister has been with? I told her that least I was not with a nigger or wetback. Then my mother called my sister out of her room, straightly ask her who is her boyfriend. She said she "don't know", then she went she doesnt have one. See that?
You guys here of course know how a girl can change so much when go to high school which majority is black and minorities (regardless of prestigious status the school has). Deep inside my heart, I am not blaming her. I am blaming friends she surrounds herself with, some crack head jigaboos and nappy headed hoes. Of course I blame myself too for not give her attension like a big brother should. I was too hestitant because her changing attitude since high school.
2/2 Right now I am just glad that I didn't call her names in the heat of it. She started yelling at me first to defend herself, I have a feeling if she's keeping something so shameful. She even called me how dare I judge her and acted so high and mighty, and mentioned that I brought a girl to our house when my mom wasn't around. I just shouted, yelled back at her and how she always ignored her house/ chores responsibility and thats even a bigger problem in our house. Then my mother stopped me and warned me, and she went lecturing her. There was a moment, in the middle of our argument, something just strucked me, reminded me that this rage just not worth. So I just sit down to calm myself.
Later, I access to my sister's blog, because fortunately she just never logs off and a little bit ditz on things she has. She continues her shit talk on her blog about how "dysfuntional" my family is and she'd better stay away from us. When in fact it is her that too much keeping stuff on herself and how she always lock her doors and never stay in the living room unless to watch her favorite TV show, Jersey shore and some other morally degrading shows.
So tomorrow, first thing in the morning I will tell her that I am sorry about tonight, I admit don't know anything about her at all. Is that a good idea /adv/? I am sure she won't place any respect for me anymore, but I just want to do the right thing. As a big brother.
tl;dr My sister can't be this niggers, I want to remind her who she is.
>>I told her that least I was not with a nigger or wetback.
Umm.