My alias name is Tsuna and I am an outgoing, smart and I have a good head on my shoulders. I know what I want. I am confident at times and loooove the way I look. I am from Jamaica but now live in the U.S.
I don't go out much because I don't really have the money nor do I know anyone in my area who is decent to really go places with BUT, I have known this guy... lets call him... John.
John and I have been talking for about 4 years now. John is a great guy and I use to like him a lot but now since I have matured and got myself together, I don't like John anymore. I told John I don't like him in the way I use to but he insists I am just joking and I don't mean it.
I use to be in a group home and even while I was in the group home he was still calling my house. My father picked up one day at 3am in the morning and yelled at him telling him to stop calling the house and he is still persistent even after I came back home.
I gave him my cell so he can ease up on the strain to my family as well as I didn't want to be rude and throw our friendship out the window. So we talk rarely. Why rarely? Because
A. I don't like him and want to talk about relationships.
B. He talks too much like a girl.
C. He just gives off that wierd stalker-guy vibe.
I'm not interested in another guy because none have caught my interest because EVERYTIME someone knows or I tell someone I'm a christian they back off. So that is not a reason I'm trying to avoid speaking to him. He's being tto extreme.
Calling me during dinner with my family, calling me 6am sometime 2am WHILE I'M TRYING TO SLEEP.
-computer tries to slide off my bed-
Yeah... my computer has been blownup with text messages from him in the past. It even has nightmares.
Any advice anyone? Not only advice but whether guy or girl... have you ever had someone you don't like or just a person who can't take a hint you don't like them anymore whether it be relationships or not. In my case... this is a relationship/friendship issue.
You might tell him you'll call the cops or get a restraining order if he doesn't go away. Rather farfetched, but it could give him a scare. Also, give him exact reasons why you don't like him. Make them sharp and biting. Appear mean and dominant, even if you don't want to. Your goal here should be to cut him down to size. Let the guy know you absolutely DO NOT WANT his company anymore.
I think I'll make you my therapist. -chuckles- just kidding.
I left him a message so I'll see how things go.