I have a plan to stop being a NEET (11)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-06 00:25 ID:457ISoe1

I'm a recovering hikikomori. About which, let's just say I was born into a dysfunctional family.

I'm currently a NEET, I've been one since I last dropped out of highschool years ago, and I've never really worked, except for something very informal months ago and which only lasted a couple of days, because I messed it up.

I have a plan to socially recover and sustainably stop being a NEET. Not that I think one "should" work, I'm critical of work, but I do think it can be advantageous to do so.

2 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-08 07:18 ID:Heaven

What might it be, if I may ask? I could use such a thing myself.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-10 05:12 ID:GnsGzhKT

My plan is having two jobs on the same days, both customer service and at least one with co-workers. I think it's of the highest importance to have "two worlds", not just one.

It's a big mistake to think any job will do. For someone who has been socially withdrawn for extended periods of time, it's important to quickly expand one's "social reference points", and to have more than one.

4 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-10 05:39 ID:GnsGzhKT

But overcoming social withdrawal is full of subleties. I'm ashamed about having no clothes, so I've been thinking about first getting a job in cleaning or something where I was paid in cash each day, and so being able to buy clothes sooner. But it's difficult to get a job like that, so maybe I'll have to make do with what I have.

5 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-13 12:40 ID:72oshT8o

This is only an idea though. My actual plans keep moving.

6 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-18 04:43 ID:CE5AssDi

Good luck. I really and truly hope this works for you.

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8 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-19 05:19 ID:26kzuYBb

Thank you.

9 Name: Anonymous : 2017-05-11 05:18 ID:FDjgc51A

So how did this all end up? I've been a NEET for 20 straight years now and I want out but don't know how to do it. I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas.

10 Name: Anonymous : 2017-06-06 12:13 ID:02McTTrc


20 years? could you write a quick story? what even happened

11 Name: Anonymous : 2017-08-15 08:51 ID:XwP1QyX8

Any tips on staying sane?

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