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How to get her trust back (13)

1 Name: stoner : 2009-04-30 06:14 ID:D32bLn4l

So, last month i got caught smoking weed at school. my mom and dad were called and everything, and then i had to go to a rehab place for an evaluation. i promised my mom i wouldnt smoke anymore. but, after a while with the people i hang out with i started smoking again.
now, just 30min ago, my friend and i got caught by my mom. My friend wanted to smoke, but i didnt know where we would go. I figured my mom already went to bed so we just smoked out the window. i guess she came up to check if my friend had a ride home and caught us. the thing is, he was taking most of the hits. but then, rght as i decide to take one, as i finish my mom comes in the room so i had the shit.

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2 Name: Anonymous : 2009-04-30 08:18 ID:Heaven


Prime example how smoking weed rots your brain.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2009-04-30 10:25 ID:qN9Cb7Ou

You're wrong. I think the kid was stupid beforehand.

OP, she's your mom, she's pissed at you (and she's right to be), just give her time. You fucked up big time, you deserve what was coming at you. But heh, she's still your mom. Given her reaction, I think she cares. She'll probably have a hard time trusting you in the years to come, and that's expected facing someone like you, but if you start getting your shit straight, maybe over time she'll regain some trust in you.

4 Name: Scotland : 2009-04-30 12:34 ID:Qzxun4Qt


"You're wrong. I think the kid was stupid beforehand"

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5 Name: Scotland : 2009-04-30 12:35 ID:Qzxun4Qt


6 Name: OP : 2009-04-30 14:12 ID:D32bLn4l

yea, i know i'm stupid. no need to tell me that
and, i had a talk with her htis morning. she said, despite everything in her head telling her not too, she's going to put trust in me again a little bit and "let it slide" as in, my dad doesnt find out, i'm still allowed to have friends over, and all that. the only things is that i cant go out with my friends for a unknown amount of time.

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7 Name: Anonymous : 2009-04-30 17:10 ID:iiuEd1+B

aww op, poor bby hugs

8 Name: Anonymous : 2009-04-30 22:48 ID:gsw80WdP

>>6 sorry, but it won't be so easy. You are by now probably addicted to tobacco, and giving up weed won't happen just like that. All the shit you went throgh and still continued smoking it shows how badly you need it.

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9 Name: stoner : 2009-05-01 05:26 ID:D32bLn4l

idk, maybe i am addicted to it. people under the age of 25 are a lot more suseptible to addiction. and i havnt smoked any tobacco. no blunt wraps for me. i just used a pipe, that's it.

and i know i'm gonna crave the high one day while i'm bored, but i'm not gona give in. i smashed my pipe with a hammer and threw my weed in the creek by my house. smashing the pipe felt very... liberating =D and i'm just thinking how much more money i'll have now

10 Name: Anonymous : 2009-05-01 07:03 ID:eYuuTWQ2

>>9 Well, looks like you're taking this seriously. Best of luck to you, and remain consistent. Don't even take a blow, once and a while, it will ruin your efforts.

11 Name: Anonymous : 2009-05-01 14:01 ID:fBGs01lV

I'm glad you've acknowledged you have a problem, and started taking the appropriate actions to resolve it. The fact that you want to get your mum's trust back is showing that you're maturing. The only advice I can offer to you is that no matter what happens, if your mum chucks a spit at you, or your teacher is being an asshole, don't ever, ever relapse. Don't think "I'll smoke this just to get back at her/him" because you're only hurting yourself. Hurting yourself is lose-lose for everyone. Remember that your mum loves you enough to care about what you're doing, there are others out there who couldn't care less.

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12 Name: Anon : 2011-12-22 17:31 ID:CyVeZ9S1

Well me and you are kinda the same, yesterday I got caught stealing my mums bank card & I took out 170 and my mum also busted me for stealing my aunty's purse, & my mum doesn't trust me for shit, neither does my dad & its christmas soon :/ & I really want to win my WHOLE FAMILIES trust back. I'm scared x_x

13 Name: Anonymous : 2011-12-23 01:47 ID:Heaven

That's not the same thing. At all.


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