So I have a sexual fetish. (I'd rather not outline specifically what it is unless someone thinks it's that relevant to the discussion here.) Yay, right? Well, no. Anything "vanilla" fails to interest me. I need to at least think about fetish-related things in order to get aroused. Does anyone else out there have this problem? Should I be worried about it?
as long as its not illegal, you shouldnt consider it a problem. more power to you man.
Not weird at all. I have a hair fetish (like hair on the head, not body hair, ew.) It's the first thing I notice on a person. I love running my fingers through a guy's hair (yes I'm a girl) and I find it much easier to get aroused if I do so.
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Unless it makes it impossible for you to have any happy sexual life, and unless your fetish is illegal or dangerous, then it's probably not much to worry about. But if your fetish is really weird, you may want to try and explore other, more conventional aspects of sexuality alongside your fetish, in order to be happier overall.
The only problem I see with your issue is that you'll have more trouble having arousal than if you were not obsessed with your fetish,...
The true meaning of fetish is that you can't get sexual arousal without it (or thinking about it, at the least).
if it's scat, ew.
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Actually, cracking down on pedo sex tourists is one of the few things the entirely dysfunctional Cambodian government is getting pretty good at, not to mention the huge and growing local NGO community. There are "report pedophiles" and "sex with children is illegal" signs and billboards all over Phnom Penh, as well as a lot of heavily armed PTSD locals.
>>meanwhile fapping for nine hours straight to huge amounts and various kinds of pornography.
If he was able to actually fap I would say it wasn't ED.