People are panicking because Tom's name isn't on the latest list of celebs to attend the Gala on Sunday. There's nothing to state he won't attend, only that more people are attending.
Also, I knew the owner of the antisusie tumblr would dismiss all of the posts from people trying to point out who these nut jobs are. So it's OK to trash someone who actually IS/WAS screwing Tom but it's not OK to do this to two lunatics who's stories are totally implausible? I'm not surprised she's done this and I'm not defending Jane but you can't throw her under a bus and protect the other two.