>>889 I like this list, anonsy, it's sensible and reasonable - and I just like lists.

But it assumes that they're in a serious relationship (weddings, major holidays) which (because of time and distance) doesn't seem to be the case. We've all see-sawed on this issue, but I think most of us agreed it is/was casual - for lack of other more specific qualifiers.

And it doesn't fit TH's MO. I came into the fandom after JA (oh, the regrets!) but like any decent researcher, I looked back into the annals of the fandom. I read the old threads here and at LSA and the other board at which I lurk. And right-thinking people were making these same lists and comments about TH and JA: It's over because: he didn't take her to Wim. this year, he didn't take her to the BAFTAs, they weren't seen doing this or that. And then Bora Bora.

We were even doing this before IGate or JVRGate: they were so cold at TIFF, they didn't walk the carpet together in Nashville, that one sighting in HI was from a fangirl who deleted it, the other sightings were from attention-seekers and were fake too - it must be over. And then Bora Bora 2.0ish.

I like trying to predict the future with sensible analysis of facts and situations - that's part of my job. But this guy and his relationships defy that process. Until we have irrefutable proof, I think we just have to go with bold-faced speculation and plain gut-feelings.