>>174 "She might be a powerful successful woman but -added to the way that suave Tom is now also sporting stick on tattoos and t shirts with her name on it could be that he's getting eaten up by the Swift roadshow rather than stamping his own identity on the relationship."

Exactly! That whole vest and tattoo is symbolic of how she's swallowed up his whole identity. There are apologists who don't see anything wrong with how she's got him whipped, mostly because they probably want spineless whipped boyfriends too but I'm sorry, no mature adult behaves this way. There's a difference in wearing a "I <3 my boyfriend" shirt versus a "I <3 T.S" shirt. This whole thing is so high school.

I still think it's like watching the hot cheerleader prank the school dork and use him to get back at her jock boyfriend by putting on a public display in front of the school gym during lunch.