>>178 I'm not dumping the blame on her at all. He is the spineless pushover guy who wants to do all of this. Whether or not he's having an internal struggle with it all, I can't say based on the pap pics.

I just don't agree with this being normal adult boyfriend behavior like I see some Tom and most Swifty fans saying it is. The Swiftys are even romanticizing it all by saying he loves her so much he's basically given up his career for her and has no problem getting ridiculed. I think it's all overboard and behavior I'd see from a couple teen celebrities. Not celebrities aged 26 and 35.