Apparently, TS's mother was definitely spotted in Rhode Island at her house on Instagram! On top of that, that twitter girl says she spotted TS and her friends from her boat, on the beach, although she did not take photos (no mention of TH.) Some are speculating that if mother Swift is in Rhode Island, then TH is not.
Gossip Cop just debunked the rumor that TS is helping TH with the Bond role, trumpeting TH's resume as a movie star and thespian. Not sure if this was Luke or TS's PR team, though. The fact that TH could have a J Brand endorsement in the works is interesting. But I think the fact that TH was accompanied by his business manager and Publicist at SDCC, and made a boomerang visit to his lawyers in NYC and maybe Marvel headquarters, means that he's going to mattresses, while Team Swift has a confab in Watch Hill. How will this evolve/devolve? No idea. Still lighting a candle, still confused.