You shouldn't fear that you have to work hard, it's your choice whether you want to work hard or not. As for living with parents, well it's ok for me as long as you aren't an asshole to them. I don't know anyone who's parent will allow them to live with them and not doing anything at all. In my case, if I were to do absolutely nothing and stay in my room the whole time, I know it won't work that way.
I know there must be a reason for your fear of the future, at least that is vibe by reading your post. This is an anonymous bbs after all. I know the major reason is fear of failure and the risk involved in the decision you make because you don't know it will successfully work or not. Or you aren't exactly sure what you want to do,and still deciding and weighing the odds.
>>3 I don't know whether you are serious or not. If it is true, since I'm curious, what are some of the people in here you don't want them to end up with?
Some people in here think like that if there isn't a good reason you are working for, then working is pointless. Thats how I seem to perceive for some people on BBS.
I heard stories and gossips that some people back in my country chose not to work and prefer to stay in social welfare. but I never had known any of them personally. The last I've heard is that most of them have psychological issues. In days like this, I think it is quite common.
It all seem like a capitalist propaganda, society expects others to perputuate the capitalist ideas. Most issues seems to involve money, profits, that is what most people are concerned about these days. Material gains, which is something society pushes people to believe in attaining. Sex and woman are also seem to have be included in this motivating desires. TV and all sorts of media, tries to give you that idea. Yes, it ideas, peoples ideas, or an individual's idea, it's really the bottom line, that spawns the reality we live in. No matter how you look at it, the reality is that dreams of one success are always at the expense of others dream. If any of you have seen Berserk, you know what I mean.