My current physique is about 6'4, 300. Most of the weight is in my frame (big boned), but I am somewhat chubby. Most if not all of the excess weight is in my torso. (orz)

I want to become in shape for multiple reasons. For one, I am single, and would like to rectify this. My past 3 relationships have all been with girls I've deemed "average or better" in terms of appearance - and I have a pretty low standard of average. I've realized that I would like to do better than this, and believe that the problem is not related at all to my personality but rather to my physical appearance.

On the other hand (and this is the reason this wasn't posted in /love/), I would like to become more healthy. I would like for my body to perform better across the board; for instance, I play DDR, and I also believe most of my limitations there to be because of my weight. I would also like to be able to run faster, jump higher, et cetera. I have no interest in competitive sports, but it'd be nice to be able to keep up in a game of ultimate frisbee (and for those of you who don't know what that is, and like physical games, LOOK IT UP. You'll love it, I promise. It's basically football mashed up with frisbee)

Anyway, have any of you turned yourselves from a flabby NEET into a running, jumping, girl-winning VIP? I would like to be the latter.