Well, I've always thought that 99% of gay men were outrageously vain and gullible. So I'm not that surprised that he turned you down after seeing your picture and believing that paranormal stuff. You actually sound pretty straight for a queer guy...except for the fact that you still want to know this guy. If it were me, I would've ditched him from the moment he started over-exaggerating similarities between us. What a fake and tacky person. Plus he's a freakin' furry. He cannot be saved.