Have any of you guys ever made a confession to a girl you truly admired?, and if so what was the outcome of doing that?.
I did it once and she was perfectly ok with it but we never got together or nothing. She was pretty understanding though.
Yes
Actually i did it a week before christmas.
She told me that she had a boyfriend, but she also said that she wasn't sure about him.
Then I asked her two days later if she felt the same. Her reply was she didn't know, and explained it by telling me that she had trouble with guys. I said "I see", and left her alone.
I hope that I get an clear answer when I see her again next week.
yes, i got....lets just be friends orz
After angsting a lot about it, I did... her answer:
1) "It's important that guys I date be the same denomination as me", and
2) "<mutual acquaintance> likes you."
Turns out she was lying about #2, and because of that I wound up embarassing myself later. That little bitch! >_<
The CUNT!, omg if I ever experienced that, I would have told off the both of them. I have no problem with offending or being upset at women, just the talking and being romantic part. =D
Ouch >>4 that really does suck.
I've confessed once, and I don't even remember what time it was, I think it was just a regular day after school in autumn or something. I met her like usual everyday after chemistry, and asked to talk to her about something after school. That's where I sort of blurted it to her. She told me she needed to think about it, and I let her bring up the topic when she made the decision. I got my answer in a week ^^
I got the "You're a good friend, but I could never think of you as anything more. " We're still good friends and talk to each other after that as if it didn't even occur.
Well, in fairness I was kind of a freaky kid back then. Didn't talk much, wrote shitty emo poetry... hell, I was slightly stalker-ish. -__- I think a lot of my classmates had me pegged as 'that quiet guy that's going to snap one day, buy an AK-47 and take out a K-Mart'.
...I got better, though. >_>
How about some success stories after a confession? :D
I'm afraid I can't quite refute that.
I confessed, and we were together for a year. Then I came to my senses and realized how much she was clinging and how little free time I had for myself.
I brought it up, she clung on tighter. I let her go.
A pity it ended like that, but them's the breaks. I cannot disprove your statement.
I confess to a girl and she rejects me. Then, she says that it's not possible to have things back the way they used to be (before I confessed)...I wish my end result was like Linus11's result...
I'm female (yes, I know; I don't exist) and I started to hang out with a classmate in college. One day he finally got up the nerve (on ICQ!) to confess that he really liked me more than as a friend, and asked if I would go out with him. Actually, I'd hoped he'd ask at some point, since I wouldn't have the nerve myself. It's been a few years, and we're still together (married and happy and everything). And he had been convinced, before that, that he was too weird and geeky to ever find a girlfriend. So don't give up!
>>12 I suppose that is pretty encouraging
Well, I've had my successes and failures, but more failures than successes.
That's not really the point, just go for it and give it a try. However get it over with quickly so less damage will be done. The longer you wait, the more it sucks.
Thank you so much madam >>13 and your spouse!!!
You've brought hope to us single men! KITAAA!
grrr, madam >>12 I meant...What can I say, it's late..
The closest I've come was essentially confessing to the girl I've let ruin my life; but there was too much drama involved and the Internet is too small for me to go into detail here. Suffice it to say it sucked (ry
Other relationships I've been in, there wasn't so much a confession as a period of mutual realization, which is fine too ...
>>11
Life tends to be such that going back to "the way things were" is generally impossible, but that could mean an awful lot of things. Then again, that's just part of the risk.
I was about to, but when my friend confessed to a girl and she rejected him (she freaked out and stopped talking to him). Now he drinks any chance he gets and tells any girl he meets to fuck off. I wussed out because I didn't want to end up like him.