I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm afraid to start dating because I honestly don't know what guys expect from girls.
What I'm asking is, what is it that guys like about girls, and why?
I'm sick of getting the same answer from all of my peers("sex") and I don't have any male friends close enough who I can ask. Help me out, 4-ch?
>>1
A girl on the internets? Okay, for now i'll just have to take your word for it...
What your peers are telling you about guys only wanting "that" is, well, mostly true. But once in a while you'd come across somebody who just wants your company. Maybe you have the same hobbies or think the same way about stuff. The trick is to look for those guys and be careful not to rush into things.
Besides, I don't think hard to figure out if a guy just wants your body...they appear so shallow, you could almost see right through them!
>>2
Pretty much sums it up. A good guy will like you for your company and thoughts rather then your body.
zomg, a girl on the intarweb, U 60 year old man wont fewl me!!!! if ur real, then, just be real with the guy...thats all. and, coming from a guy, well, i dont expect much from a girl, except for the fact for her to like me back, thats all. if i like her too, its fine, isnt that all that matters?
Oh please, if I were a 60 year old man posing as a 17 year old girl, I'd be on myspace, not 4-ch. XD
Guys like girls for the same reason that girls like guys.
Genetics, Hormones, Nature, Nurture, and a desire to perpetuate their genetic lineage.
Animals do not question this.
If you want to know what guys find particularly attractive in a girl, this varies between guys the same way it varies with girls.
Me, I like tits and nice eyes. Someone else may like blond hair and money.
Same with girls, some girls like big dicks and tight abs, others may like longer hair and a special talent.
>>1
I'm gonna give you teh same Internet Advice that I give everyone. Which doesn't actually say much, har dee har har.
The advice is: grow yourself a personality and/or cultivate a real character. Being just a heap of knee-jerk responses and a sense of self that you'd rather totally conceal is just as big a turn-off for men as it is for women.
Also, don't try too hard. That one too works both ways.
>>6
humans are more than animals. god, i hate people like this.
Humans are a higher form of animal, but do not deny that we are indeed animals.
There is no shame in it.
> Pretty much sums it up. A good guy will like you for your company and thoughts as well as your body.
fix't
>>9
humans are more than animals. god, i hate people like this.
>>8,11
lol
Humans are animals, just particularly unusual ones that often prefer things not beneficial to themselves or the perpetuation of the species.
Let it suffice to be said that any guy in highshool wants to use you for sex.
Any guy in college/university PROBABLY wants to use you for sex.
Any guy past that point may or may not want to use you for sex.
If he has a penis; he wants to put it in your pooper.
Yeah... it's true. But that's the way the world works.
It's not my fault I like boobies so much (´・ω・)つ(・(・
i'm a random 20-something loser guy and having a girl i could share tenderness with would be way more awesome than just having lots of sex. some see sex as most important but people have lots of strange ideas in general anyway
You're generalizing quite a bit. I think you should get that problem sorted out first, 1, before you try to figure out other matters.
You need to decide what you want out of a relationship and work from there. As for the guy's expectations, they damn well better jive with what you want, otherwise there's no point.
It's as simple as that.
well i'm a guy and not that intrested with sex ~"~ dont know why everything a guy say has to do with sex.... well depends on the girl, if shes nice and easy to talk to then most guys like about that. i think mainly just find someone to talk to otherwise (typical) its cos of ur looks and they properly think ur good looking ect ect...
to me i properly like a girl that is easy to talk to and have a nice personality ^^
Benson...
you should know by now that trick doesnt work...
>>1 Girls are ultimate robots for sex preaching and cleaning purposes.
Girls are NOT robots!
They're slaves, get it right......
>>1
I like girls because they're warm and they can smell intoxicatingly good, even if it's just shampoo.
What I want is someone I can talk to without worrying about what kind of impression I make while I have my head in her lap, and who's not too reserved about sex.
Also, follow >>19's advice and tell us what you like about guys.
>>21 what trick?? well i cant really say much cos never had a relationship, but thats just what i think and i understand its pretty abnormal for a guy not intrested in sex ect, i'm just sick of seeing guys talk about sex sex sex.... cant talk about nothing else ~~"
>>1 think of guys as just a best friend expect a lil bit more
What do I look for in girls?
Well, I just want a companion. Someone to keep me company, that I wouldn't mind spending my whole life with. Sex comes later, IMO. Once companionship has reached it's peak.
It's all downhill from the peak.
Girl, start dating when you lose that fear and find it fun to date.
Let it suffice that being who you are will make the guy like you.
Be careful when you fall for a guy. Girls are usually blinded when they like a guy. At your age, you don't date cuz u want to fall in love. You date to find people you can trust, and eventually, love. Yes, highschoolers are difficult to trust, they're kids after all.
Bad generalization, now that i read it. Young people are just more unstable, not less trustable. It's difficult to trust anyone, if you don't know the person well.