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You've got me all wrong >>29, granted my nihilism and relatively negative view on the world has made me see things in a decidedly darker tone than anything else, but I'm not saying that one should ogle a girls breasts. I would not do that and that certainly wouldn't be the first thing I would say. In fact, while I do admire a woman's breasts and the concavity thereof, they aren't the main thing I care about. Besides, I actually think it would be rude NOT to complement a girl on her tits.
Tits, hair, ass, and shoes. Women are the most self conscious about those four things. Besides, I heard that according to a study in Germany that looking at and admiring tits was healthy and should be encouraged. There's a reason for it. Tits are a secondary sex characteristic. They serve the same purpose as a peacock's feathers or a robins red breast. They are meant to be attractive. They add feminine shape and feel good when you lay your head on them. They are soft and cushiony.
Of course, tits alone do not a good person make. Because there are a lot of people who pay good money to have fancy tits and they are still complete assholes.
Now me, I am not really an asshole or a jerk. I'm not a very nice person either. So I just be myself, and while it may be offsetting for the faint of heart, it works for me. Like a male friend if he runs track or takes up lifting weights, I will compliment on his physique. Like "Hey Dave, You're getting muscular, must be really working out, huh?" Men are very proud of their arms and their chest. Vain and bodystrong creatures, men can be sometimes moreso than women. So it would be rude of me, as a person, to not compliment somebody on their good fortune or hard efforts.
If a girl takes getting a compliment for her titties as an insult then she is just very stuck up. Now I do NOT advocate people going around and just saying "nice tits" to everybody especially just complete strangers they didn't even know. I mean you wouldn't just run up to a complete stranger and say "WOW! Nice arms, bro. You must really pump your guns" because depending on who you talk to, that could be an ass whipping in the making right there. But if you introduce yourself and engage in a conversation and drop that little line, then it will be cool and taken as a compliment.
So yes, in that manner you should compliment women on their tits. And I don't think it reduces them to "fuckdolls" because if I wanted a fuckdoll, I'd pay my $6,000 and buy one that didn't smart off at the mouth with me. In fact I think it should be taken for what it is, a platitude.
OH and BTW, Human relationships as we know them today are relatively new. In olden times, men would either buy a woman, take a woman, or be given a woman as a gift. She would then bear his children, raise them, feed both him and the children, and make sure his hut did not burn down while he waged war in some distant land.
So be thankful for what you have if you are one of those hippie, feminist, girl power types. But, in all honesty, while that CAN be exciting at first, it does get boringly old and stale after a while. I mean a guy goes out and wages war all day or busts his everloving ass at a job he despises and comes home all he wants to do is eat, take a shit, watch TV, get his rocks off and go to bed. He doesn't need or want to hear about all this "we" shit or all this lame "I want this" or "you need to do this" bullshit. Save that bullshit for the weekend when he's rested and is more open to doing stuff. In the time being, keep him fed, full and happy so he is inspired to continue laboring his ass off.