I'm going to tell you something >>57. It's good that guys rarely notice you, because most guys are looking for an easy lay or some little princess.

A good man, a guy worth having isn't going to care so much about your looks as he is the content of your spirit and your mind.

I don't know you and I don't know what you look like. But even if you were a little heavy or plain, it wouldn't matter.

Most mature males want security and loyalty. Looks fade, women get old, fat and wrinkled. That's life.

But what keeps a man to a woman, is her mind, her heart, and her conscience. Most younger guys flock to princesses and barbies simply because they just want to get laid and get their rocks off. These guys are bastards and not worth having because of their loose morals and idiocy.

Like I said, don't change. Good looks are fine, and it's important to take care of yourself for health reasons not just aesthetic ones. But trust me, what will attract a man to you will not be your looks. It'll be the type of person you are and your beliefs.

Look at my ideal woman; dark, angry, nihilistic, and idealistic. Notice how generic I am about physical features. In ancient Norse lore, Valkyries were both beautiful but also terrifying and fearsome. They were often covered in gore and brandished swords, they screamed as they entered battle and they rode astride of Dire Wolves. Looks mean very little in the long wrong because it is just flesh and flesh dies and withers.

But a firey spirit and vehemence, last forever.

Think about that.