>>10
Your question is rather silly in my eyes, however this thread isn't for discussing why someone is not straight, as that would derail this topic far too much (as I'd want a proper, serious discussion). Please create a thread here where you can ask whatever you want more exactly regarding the nature of non-straight people.

>>9
Heh, been there done that. Fell in love with one of my best friends four years ago, who was blatantly straight and a tad homophobic, even. But yes.. The chances of you finding a guy who'll fancy you back is a bit too low in an ordinary crowd. And you definitely aren't supposed to try to date guys you're not attracted to, just because they fancy guys. However, you really should consider trying to find a group of guys who not only are into guys, but also are more like what you like in a friend and potential boyfriend.

If mingling with people in the short term is a problem try attending any local events that a bunch of non-straight people are arranging? Not sex-meetings, but platonic events. Might be a tad problematic if you live in a smaller town without such things. Otherwise try going to clubs instead of bars? And be focused on just having a good time there instead of focusing on talking with people with the hopes of finding a potential partner. Join some online forum with a good amount of gay/bi guys within a reasonably close geographical area, hang out there, aquire more friends, and possibly find someone to love that will love you back.
I'm trying to think of other things you can do, but I'm sleep deprived at the moment and can't really think properly.