How do you tell a guy is attracted to you or just being nice and friendly? I'm a terribly shy girl, so I often blush and look away when a guy even looks at me... so any advice whatsoever would be much appreciated.
don't worry, you'll find that out soon enough if you give it a little time. You wanna know real bad? in that case you'll have to try and talk with guys more... or allow them more to talk to you! smiling and an open mind to contact will do the trick. Difficult though...especially in the beginning. so good luck.
This reply was from a 20yr old guy, I believe you will receive many many other replies!
so I often blush and look away when a guy even looks at me...
thats probably the cutest thing ive ever heard, thats so anime cliche, yet cute anyway.
talk to some guys more, thats all, ull get some exp and learn alot more.
Make sure you go to easy areas first, if you die then you lose XP and gil.
Seriously, though, most guys will ask you out or something if they're really interested. I do! Also look for guys that make an effort to see you or who talk to you only even though there's other people in the room, etc etc.
Guys who are interested in you are guys who are willing to go out of their way to make you happy and because making you smile is what gives them happiness. At least, that's how I think. I'm an 18 year old guy btw.
How to tell a guy is attracted to you?
Look dowm there... you know ... is it hard?
Sorry but just look at the mirror. It will tell you a lot. Truth hurts.
Moé~
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>>7 Just because you can't live looking at yourself, doesn't mean everyone else is as ugly as you or whatever creature gave birth to you.
If he covers his penis area with a folder or other item when he talks to you, he likes you!
>>1
If a guy wants to talk to you, he likes you, at least a little bit. The important thing to learn to pick out is which ones like who you are and which ones want to get laid.
Guys lets get back on a topic and give more helpful ideas?
As said before if a guy is interested in you signs are:
-He will go out of his way to see you or to talk to you
-seem to help you a bit more than a normal friend would like really go out of his way
-Compliment you
-Random acts of kindness?
-buying you stuff is a big sign (though overdoing that can make the guy look shallow)
I'll add more later
>>7 is right...to some extent, but an ugly girl who knows many men will have better luck than the beautiful girl who does not know any. The reason why the ugly girl would know many more men is because she would have to try harder to get their attention, while the pretty girl tends to expect men to just come to her. Men will not always do that because her beauty can be intimidating. So, maybe they will go for the ugly girl because she is easy and desperate.
The easiest way to know if a guy likes you without asking is how he looks at you. So, when a guy looks at you try to return the look and notice the expressions in his eyes. Is it because you were talking too loudly so he decided to see where the horrible noise came from or is it because he finds you pleasurable to look at? I think it is pretty easy to notice the difference.
I could be wrong but judging a man's eyes has yet to fail me.
If I guy likes you he'll make an effort to speak to you. Be aware of distant staring. Most guys will try to make you happy because they'll feel happy when you are.