A little help for a girl like me. (42)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-03 20:02 ID:HoY9/ijc

I'm currently in a relationship with a older guy (about a 6 year difference) and we're both new to the relationship pool. He used to "date" someone else, but they broke up because he didn't get along with her parents and they didn't get very far.
Anyway, I'm posting because I really need some advice on what I should do next after these events. Should I break up with him? Or try to talk to him again (after sending emails and phone calls which he never has a responce but "I'm sorry" but continues to do these things)?

-He frequently passes off topics of conversation that I enjoy as things he doesn't care about. I like to talk about movies, TV shows, music, languages, image macros/memes, food, anime and animals. He only likes to talk about macros, video games, and politics. He has shouted at me "I don't care" when I bring up something I enjoy. I wish he'd be a bit more open, but he refuses to hear anything about seeing outside his world.
-We were both virgins (we've done some things), but he doesn't want to have actual intercourse with me because I'm not a "woman of experience". Most of our intimate time together is pleasurable, but awkward. He has a habit of staring at me when he's doing something to me and sticks with one thing at a time (ex: he sucks my nipples, but does nothing else [not even caressing or paying attention to the other breast])
-He makes me feel really terrible about myself most of the time. He's stated that I smell and taste terribly (note: He has never eaten me out, but he has tasted my skin [most of which he tasted has been contained in clothes this hot summer]) many times, and refuses to stop even after I told him how it makes me feel. I'm a very clean person, by the way, so it's not like I hang out with him after I haven't taken a shower in a while. But he makes me feel like I'm particuarly disgusting, especially after an incident where he wanted me to shave off my arm hair (which I refused to do). I shaved off a good portion of body hair for him, once, but now I don't see the point in it after his constant disatisfaction with my body. Along with that, he squeezes body parts and honks IN PUBLIC, which really pisses me off (I've told him that, as well). Also, during our first time "together", he didn't like how wet I happened to be and found it "gross".
-On that note, because of the age gap, he makes me feel terribly stupid most of the time, and occasionally mocks me when I don't know something (and not in a joking way) or do something silly (and it goes on for a very long time with a small incident).
I've gotten rather tired of his behaviour and wish he would be more mature and treat me as his girlfriend (what he says he references me as) and not a glorified doll who will say and do whatever he wants. I don't know where else to go, as I haven't told many people about the relationship and would rather not have to tell them all of this.
Thanks in advance.

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