A friend of mine introduced me to her friend who has an "off and on" boyfriend (they broke up and made up abot 3 times), she's currently single but I'm not sure for how long. We talked over the phone over the past 3 weeks and finally went out for lunch yesterday, she seems like a nice girl, she has about as much of an emotional baggage as anyone but what I found attractive about her was her intellect, I've never been in a relationship before as I find some of the girls I dated before to be rather "shallow" and I'm not sure whether I should pursue this romantically or should I just be happy I have another smart friend.