I gave her the note because I didn't want to bother talking to her and wasting her time. It wouldn't have made a difference. I understand how gravity and ledges work. She's on the ledge or she's not. I can't change that.

She'll either talk to me now or she'll ignore it. In either case I don't even care. I don't even want her anymore. She smiled at me this morning, but it was more like a laughter as I see it. I would have smiled in her place, too.

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But you're right, I do set myself up for failure. I can see the specific things I've done in situations like this where I would disarm pretenses exactly as I did with the notes and then blame her for not addressing me correctly. In all honesty, I don't even want a girlfriend, because the only ideal girl I would accept would be such a lowly human being they wouldn't even be worth loving.

>>"there's plenty of fish in the sea"

All the fish are the same in the same ways. I'm not going to mate a shark or a turtle, man.

>>Be cool, be humorous, be nice

That's exactly how I act towards girls I have no respect for. My problem is the second I respect someone I'm unable to treat them in any other way but as my superior, and this means not talking to them unless they talk to me first.

I have a new question, but should I start a new thread? How do I stop this girl I gave a note to from having a crush on me?