So we met again (somewhat spontaneously) last Thursday at the same bar from a week before, and by the end of the night we're making out outside waiting for her sister and friends to come out. I think she liked it a lot.

We sorta planned to meet on Friday night after she got out of work at 10:30 PM -- at the same bowling alley bar from a week before where her sister works -- so I hung out there with my (male) friend while I waited for her to show up. Around 1:00 AM, I got a call from her saying she had dozed off at home again, so we just chatted for a bit and then I stuck around with my friend until the place closed.

Late Saturday morning, she mentioned she'd call me when she got out of work, but she never did, which led me to assume she had dozed off again at home. Around midnight, she texts me asking what happened (like I'm the one that was supposed to call her), and I ask her if she wants me to pick her up for a house party some of my friends were having. After a while, I send her another text message and later leave a voicemail but it's no use. She never responded.

That was the last response I got from her until yesterday afternoon. She told me in a text message that she was sorry for being out of touch, and that she's "got some stuff going on" (whatever that means). I replied, but again haven't gotten a response since.

Am I being too hasty? Am I being played? I hope not. :( She said her last boyfriend was up in Jersey (where she's from), and appearance-wise she isn't the kind of girl that would make guys do a double-take if they glanced at her.

Anyway, I'm gonna give her a call later this afternoon or early evening to ask if she's OK, etc etc (yes, I really do care). I'm also thinking of discreetly dropping off a humble gift for her later this week at the store where she works (I've had it since Tuesday last week when we were making plans for our first date).