its looking away that hurts the most... you just want to look at that person until your eyes pop out of their sockets... but then you find yourself scared as hell that she might look your way and notice you notcing her... and put you in a really embarrassing situation... which then makes you more and more interested in her... that hurts a lot, doesnt it? Wanting to reach out and get closer to that person, but then there's something in your brain telling you to just stick to looking? Man, that for me is the hardest thing to deal with when you find someone that attractive...