It seems so easy doesn't it? You've got your own life and have found someone you care about...then it's the most insignificant and immature things that can tear down all you've built up for yourself. My family has always come first, they've helped me through so much hell and hurt. And I've never intentionally hurt them before, but this situation...I know it will hurt them. Is my relationship with her wrong because I know it's going to hurt someone? Should love take precedence here? This is really upsetting to me. I really emphathize will anyone who's ever gone through this.