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Don't be stupid, open yourself up, find out it doesn't kill you, then see who approaches you. You might get surprised.

Your reasoning is really shitty, I'm sorry, I understand if it makes sense in your head and you feel all noble about it but you're making a big fuss over nothing. Because that's what shyness and cowardice is, nothing, it's all just in your head. Fat, ugly people are out there getting laid because they have overcome their fears, now you go do the same.