Why is it just because two people like anime and they are both black that they suddenly have this special connection and they have to be together? There are people I have a lot in common with but I can't stand to even be around them, both black and white.

I have only met a couple black guys into anime and I wasn't feeling anything. I really don't feel anything for black men in general to be perfectly honest. Is that because I think they are all the same? Not exactly, but I have dated enough to know that I am tired of them. As harsh as it sounds, it's how I feel.

When I started dating white men it was quite refreshing not having to play the Mother to my own boyfriend. I actually feel like I am dating a real man who can take care of himself, who is not constantly needing me for something.

I also think that white men are stronger mentally and emotionally. They are also more stable and they don't carry as much baggage. Then there are the more superficial and physical reasons as to why I prefer them...