>>37
I'm not >>35, but I can answer that one. It doesn't mean that. But it doesn't mean, either, that you can't handle them with enough willpower. Of course, it won't work all day long, you'll have some nasty moments of sadness, loathing, plain confusion or whatever - but still, you can handle your feelings if not "rationally manage".

And I'm not saying this goes without suffering, either. At least at the beginning.