I posted this on another forum and got crap responses from people basically calling me a doormat and now telling me any new ideas except a threesome suggestion which neither one of us are into, so I am going to try here. I am not a doormat by the way, I do these things to show my future husband that I love, care deeply for, and appreciate him.

I love my fiance, so I work hard to please him. So, I am looking to surprise him with something new to do. To not get answers suggesting what I already know, this is what I do:

I do the cooking and baking, so a fancy dinner is not really special for us. It was special in the beginning because he had never had a girlfriend that cooked. I never meant it to be special or romantic anyways, it's just something to bring to the marriage table and I like cooking.

We do the role play/BDSM thing during sex often. It is extremely pleasurable, but now it is kind of normal for us.

He gets hand, back, foot, scalp massage all the time. He works hard so I want to help him unwind after a long day. So, he enjoys this but it is kind of expected at this point. That's fine, I know he gets sore and he is grateful for every little thing.

The latest thing is when in the bath or shower, I massage and bathe him thoroughly, he doesn't need to do anything except turn around so I can wash his back and lift his feet so I can wash the bottoms. So, at first it was all new and special...but it's going to be a regular thing so I need to please him with something new.

Any new ideas? I would prefer answers from men, because I want to know what men like, not what women think men like.