Like, I feel strongly for her.
She blows me away.
But Im a street thug (crippin) and shes a nice girl. I breakdance and fight, she plays softball. The only thing we have in common is the fact that we are both intelligent. I have her in the Leadership Center, which is an accelerated program for my school. I have her for 3 classes, she sits next to me in 2, I have her on my bus (when shes not practicing for softball) and she eats lunch when I do. Im not entirely sure how to handle things. I have a reputation to uphold (ie. if Im acting romantic, then I will probably get excommunicated by my friends.) and I cant all of a sudden spend time with her. I did buy her a valentines gift though, but I dont know if I can just give it to her.
What should I do? comments would be amazing.
Thanks in advance.
Stop being a street thug and go for the girl.
Only way to leave the crips is in a box.
And I like breathing.
If your thug life and your precious reputation matter more, then give up on her and stay with your "friends". Note that true friends don't murder you for choosing to switch affiliations or changing your lifestyle.
Real thugs dont have a computer. Real thugs dont come to 4-ch. Real thugs dont come to 4-ch and ask otaku for girl advice. Therefore, yourn not thuggin, and thus just ask the girl out
my reputation doesnt mean shit to me, but I dont plan on being percieved as weak.
And I have true friends, but most of the people I hang out with would kill me for thinking about leaving.
There are a few that would miss me, but support me no matter what (true friends.)
but, criticizing not helpful, can you give suggestions?
Real thugs dont have a computer. Real thugs dont come to 4-ch. Real thugs dont come to 4-ch and ask otaku for girl advice. Therefore, yourn not thuggin, and thus just ask the girl out
Mmhhh... OK. Ill let you believe whatever you want about thugs/street criminals.
Whats Otaku?
How do I ask girls out then?
Im not romantic at all.
(although I did buy her a box of chocalates for valentines day. But I would rather be castrated then embarass myself by giving them to her.)
nigga you aint thug.
stop pretendin to be thug. be you then it will work out. if your ass keeps up with this wanksta ass fantasy, you will get shot for no reason and be broken hearted at the same time.
Mmhh..
First Im not a "nigga" or a "nigger" or a "nicca" or any other interpretation of the word. Im Italian, and proud of it.
Second, you dont know me, and you never will.
third, I have been shot at. Twice. one grazed my shoulder, the other missed.
Fourth, Fuck what youve heard.
Are you sure you'd want to involve a girl like her with people like the people you hang out with? (let's assume you're 'better' than them, given you come for advice and stuff)
This is the first question you should answer if you plan to have any relationship with her.
anyone screws with her and Ill get them at the knees, problem solved.
It's not a question of screwing with her, rather than a question of her being involved in the social environment you live in.
Also, are you sure she wouldn't try to, somehow, make you quit? Wouldn't that be a problem to you?
Have you seen Lord of war?
It would be one of those kinds of things.
Behind da back.
Socially, she doesnt even know my friends.
No I haven't seen that movie. Shame on me.
Don't you think that if you end up in a relationship with her she will get to know your "friends"?