If OCD is causing you to worry about things like your hands and gelling your hair, why don't you get help to overcome it? Same for if you don't like being sweaty - if you dfon't want to be skinny you need to do weight training and eat lots. As for things like your nose not being straight, that really doesn't matter. Same for traces of acne.

The biggest turn off is that you've come out with all these flaws, while nobody else seems to have ever said to you "eww your nose isnt straight" etc.