well, i decided that this is the plan i am going to try. the next few months, i will show her just how much i love her. i will be there for her 24/7, and i will constantly remind her how much i love her (she loves that sorta thing) and i'll get "cheesy" for her too (she also loves this) and if all of that does not work, and i find out that she continues the cheating, i will realize that things just wont ever work out and i need to move on with my life. And yes, i will be able to pull out if this happens again. But, wish me luck. and hope that this will turn out well...