You're wrong on all points, allow me to explain:
The ugly guy "hitting" on you is being honest and curageous. In his mind he has to be, because that is all he has to build on.
The cute guy "talking to you" is using strategy to get inside your panties. You'll know this from the tips in this thread. He doesn't really give a shit about the conversation, he just knows he can "get it" and how.
He can pretend to become your friend because he knows you'll be hot for him anyway. The "ugly" guy knows that if he becomes your friend, he will be your friend and nothing else, and that will only break his heart and make you awkward once you realize.
So what you have here is a good, decent and honest guy being straight about his intentions, and he would most likely also appriciate and take good care of you.
And then you have the scheeming cockhead who's only interested in fucking you, and have no reason to appriciate or take care of you because he knows there's always someone better, since he has already fucked everyone and their mothers. If you're appriciative enough of his awesomeness he will use you for a while, until a better deal comes along.
Then you have me, the curious exception. The one who is the cute guy at the bus-stop NOT talking to you because on the inside he's like the ugly guy. And he knows the only reason all those girls want him to come and talk to them is because he's the cute guy.
I can't handle rejections? Motherfucker, I can't even be friends with girls. Every last girl who's befriended me has also fallen for me, and instead of having a friend you end up with emotional drama bullshit, it's not even flattering it's just a pain in the ass.
If I could have one honest girl who actually had the courage to tell me up straight what she wants, I would fucking marry her just for that. But no one even dares to hit on me, I only get retarded friendships and at best some cautious flirting before they set themselves reeling for the exit because they realize I don't want their faggotry.
I almost wish I was ugly so I could have a normal miserable life instead of this shit.