>>9 It took you 10 years to figure that out? Look,i have difficulties with girls too, but it's always when i go "looking" that i end up with some i don't care for..it is only in circumstances beyond my control (see above)i meet them. Yes corny,but it did happen. What i meant in not caring,not hoping..is not going to the clubes,bars etc...what about work? Or someone you bump on the train,yes it does happen. THEN you should do your move, OFCOURSE IF YOU don't care at that moment,you will never get any.

But if you do care too much,you will chase them away.., girls don't like that shit.

Goodluck!