how's an asian a bonus lol >>25?

well, >>22 has got my words. i'm looking for that type of guy. i guess most realistic n sensible sort of gurls usually get put off n disgusted by guys who seek too much attention or r too sure of themselves. cockiness is not wat a gurl looks for.
i think guys who r understanding n hav a caring nature r cute. it shows their soft side, i guess.
i also tend to look for some1 "secure", some1 who i can trust n rely on. as for "cockiness", it just proves their arrogance n leaves me a feeling of insecurity. gurls usually like to b safe n protected around the guy they like.
i also want guys to take control of situations n able to snap their brains at a click of a sec. like take a scenario for eg: a bf takes his gf out to dinner but didn't make reservation. when they got there, it was full. instead of looking helpless, the guy takes control of the sitaution, leaving the gurl feel "secured".
however, too much control can scare me away. guys shouldn't press too hard or get angry too easily. violence n temper is a definite NO-GO!!!
-sorry about the length of this-