That's the way we swing.
The typical nice guys don't stand a chance, because your a boring. And whiny. Got it?
You propably would be a better boyfriend, but atm you're acting like her best friend, her best girlfriend that is.
Gosh, instead of whining and bitching on da interbutt, you should walk straight to her boyfriend, give him a good punch in the face, grab the girl and head off to your bedroom.
Then you can be nice and caring again.