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I am hoping there is a third option: changing her for the better so that there is less of a disparity between us...

However, expecting to form her to match my ideals might be selfish right? But I will never find a woman who is 100% perfect outright.

She is a good sex partner which is pretty damn important and rare too... However it might be easier to improve how my girl does in bed than changing her personality, sadly...