I have plenty of attractive friends, but I'm not particularly good looking myself, and I don't really want to ruin any friendships. At the same time, I want to hook up with someone, because I'm getting very tired of being lonely. I could probably hit on someone I don't really know that well, but there's always the incredible awkwardness when they say no, plus if I don't really know them, the chances of them wanting to hook up are also fairly low. It's not like I'm fat or anything, but I look vaguely middle eastern (very atheist though). Tips from anon?