It came... Its finally my chance (134)

23 Name: Tnk : 2008-11-26 16:39 ID:QgYULyNG

Now, homie.

I was surprised to see you put so much of your thoughts in here, guess u must've been really serious bout this :) which makes me happy, cuz I thought all the guys around don't really how to pronounce "love" anymore xD.

This remind me of myself 2 years ago, the time when I had my first luv, or more precisely, a "one-way" first luv :). It was my turning point of life from there, when I somehow managed to get thru the entrance exam to high school with flying colors. If it was not for luv, I would not have done so well, I used to be a totally nameless joke. But then the luv was going no where, heh, which is the reason for me to decide to go and study abroad, I needed a place for my heart... All this was the most memorable year of my life.

Anw, enough of my self-whining stuff. Now I am gud in the foreign country with a cool head.

Now back to your topic, it feels pretty the same when the emotions are pure :)) Yeah I used to be like u, putting so much thinking and wondering into my brain, force it to solves things like the way it solves math problems.

So, bro, lemme put it like this. Put aside the thinking and feeling u got for her. Stop thinking the way like she's the One or watever. They only hinder u from getting there. Instead, think of her firstly as a human being, dont exaggerate things, she may be an angel in your eyes, but be real first, she's just a human like u. So treat her as naturally as possible. Don't stick around, messaging 24/7, keep a safe distant instead.

Be cool, i mean. Guys showing that they r deeply in need of the girl often going nowhere because often she look down on him, or getting dominated by her even if they can be a couple. Be a straight up guy, being humorous is important, try to tease her ( in a funny and nice way !) sometimes if possible. Girls like it ^^ Girl will likely to like the guy that she think she can talk and have fun with, not the one giving her troubles or awkward times... :)

Let things come naturally, bro. U r going great, envy u, haha :)) I'm quite sure that she's at least thinking of u as a nice guy, whom she can trust to ask for a ride when she's deeply in need to go to school. xD

GO FOR IT, OTAKUN :D

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