>>5 I don't think it pays of to worry whether she likes you or not. What counts is that she's willing to go out with you, which is already substantial, and sufficient for you to go to the next stage (holding hands, parting kiss).

Since you have a third meeting scheduled, I suggest you give yourself a simple objective: hold her hands. So no need to stress about anything else, just do get to hold her hands, that will be enough.