Ok I’ve tried not to respond to this but I can’t just let it go the reasoning here is so messed up. This will take a while but it’s important. First off we are all animals so we want sex it is natural whether you are man or woman you want sex from a desirable partner as part of our natural urges. This causes jealousy from people look at how animals fight over mates our response as humans is jealousy and hatred towards those that have sex when we don’t get any. For example OP and the thread in general I forget what it is. Enter the convoluted society we live in for centuries we have lived in a male dominated society putting many pressures on women to be a certain way recently women suddenly received more rights from the woman’s liberation movement stuff like abortions and birth control gave women more control over their sex lives. However many of the old standards towards women are still in place. This creates a confusing situation for both sides women are now free to have sex when they please while still holding some of the pressures of the old male dominated society and men still have the same constraints as before. Basically it makes sense for men to be lonely because they are out of the loop for now women are getting equal rights in a society that has not yet adjusted so women are actually gaining the upper hand.( In a wrong way of course but that’s subjective and off topic)

I’m not done yet though this is a very complex topic and requires more discussion. There are always exceptions and this situation does not apply to everyone some people are inherently out of the loop will never fit in and be lonely be they male or female. Some people are also stupid you forget we are all animals craving a satisfaction some people formulate morals and hold themselves up towards ideals but most people just want to get as much out of life as they can and these people see sex as fun and an escape these are the slutty girls and the guys that do them. They don’t care if it doesn’t make sense if it doesn’t make them happy in the long run or eventually hurts them. They are just trying to satisfy a need to fill their own loneliness with sex. This however doesn’t work look at all the rich millionaires that kill themselves the people that have everything are often extremely unhappy sex is the same. It should be noted sex is more than just a physical action it affects the mind as well as the body it creates nerve connections in the head that are hard to break its habit forming and can lead to associations such as sex equals love and sex equals happiness even if it’s not true. These women are victims of their own choice and their lack of knowledge as to what is true and good. Loneliness can be felt in a room filled with people or by yourself it is not dependant on what you have or what you are going to do it is also subjective someone can feel lonely about one situation while another would feel quite happy. Not all women chose this just like not all men chose neglect their morals some women are the same and actually have morals. I know it’s hard to believe but reason is powerful and I know a couple girls who are out of the loop of societal problems one who I dated that never had sex and absolutely refused to do it with anyone because of her religion and because she was almost raped. A year before I met her she tried killing herself and was in terrible shape for the a full year no friends no boyfriends or anything she was a high school dropout and spent some time in a psychiatric hospital her parents hated her she had no one if that is not loneliness then nothing is. There will always be exceptions don’t assume the whole population is conformed to the same set of ideals. Most people are stupid because we neglect our ideals and morals because we feel confined by them there is freedom in them but we can’t see it until it’s too late.