The best way to go about kissing anyone is going with the flow of the evening. Don't necessarily focus on the kiss, or the end result of a date. Date's aren't pass/fail unless you make them be. And this date will be the beginning (or end, who knows? You might have found a winner..) of trial and error. Don't be scared that you're going to screw up, because trust me, you will in some way screw up. But don't let that get in the way of having a good time.

Understanding the moment is the key to success in any relationship. Feel the vibe, and act on it. Shower, make sure you look nice, have some good music in your car, and have fun. But you won't kiss her if that's all you focus on.

Let us know how it goes.