OP Here. I'm a girl. It was a male who dumped me.

I'm done crying my eyes out. Now I need to make goals. My boyfriend was my only friend and my only form of socialization. I'm a girl who is average height/weight, not particularly attractive, and doesn't have a sense of style. I like playing video games, tabletop games (D&D, Iron Kingdoms, etc), watching anime, building computers, and other such geeky stuff. I cannot associate with anyone who smokes or drink (Smoking because of a severe allergy, and drinking for personal reasons). How can I make friends? I'm already on Anonidate, PlentyofFish, JustSayHi, OkCupid, and Myspace. I have a volunteer job, but no one my own age ever comes in. I don't have time to get a part-time job.

I'm considering either beginning to go to church, even though I'm not religious, or hanging around the local hobby shop. I have this vision in my mind that if I walk into the hobby shop, all of the geek-guys will drop their D&D books and warhammer figures, point and say, "OMFG A GIRL, GET HER." but I know that won't happen. The geeks around here are actually pretty stuck up, and aren't desperate for friends or girls.

So, how do I go about making friends? How do I initiate a conversation? What do I do if they laugh in my face? What kind of clothes should I wear?

Please help me, 4-ch.