I've read through both threads and I'm suprised just cut off all contact with her never talk to her ignore her if she calls if you see her ignore her get rid of anything that could connect you to her delete/throw away her phone numbers and contact info. Get her out of your mind by pretending she doesn't exist or isn't real. It will be hard but to forget and move on but sometimes its the only way. don't talk to her anymore thats what is making you sick you're tricking yourself into a false sense of hope.