You're going to have to let her go, because no matter how much you chase her, you will never catch her.

Here's a little story for you. About three years ago I fell hard for a guy. Whenever we talked time would whizz by, and stand still at the same time. He just broke up with someone he dated for five years a month before. We got involved, and then he started talking about how much I resembled his ex. He started talking to her, even though he said he would never talk to her again, and I got scared.

Because I fell so hard and got so scared he ended up labeling me as possessive and crazy, but for four months did not say it was over. Finally he said he didn't want to date anyone. A week later he had a girlfriend. It took me two years to get over him, and how I got over him was to tell him to fuck off. After some time he wanted to be friends again, out of the blue. I told him to fuck off. Only then was I totally over him.

So OP, take some time to think. What is more important? Do you want to try to win her over? Do you just want to get over her? If your feelings are too strong not spending time with her may be best, and if she toys with you let her know what sort of bitch she is. If you want to break the emotional ties you have with her then the best thing to do is break the real ties with her. If you remain friends and keep seeing her you will still love her. Think about it.